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			<content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Dustin DuFault</p><p>My wife of 18 years had left me and <span class="bbu">filled for divorce</span>. She was my high school sweetheart and I was devastated.<br />和我在一起18年的日子离开了我，我们离了婚。她是我从高中就深爱的人，离婚后我心如刀割。</p><p> I am a Christian and was hanging on to false hope that she would try to save our family at some point but she never would try anything - no therapy or anything, ever.<br />我是一个基督徒，所以我抱着虚妄的幻想，祈祷在某些方面，她会尝试拯救我们的家庭关系，但是她始终没有做过什么，破碎的爱情从来没有解药。</p><p>So, anyway, I was at my sisters wedding in Mexico and my mom (who has different values <span class="bbu">lol</span>) was encouraging me to take my wedding ring off. <br />总之，当我在墨西哥参加妹妹的婚礼，我那有着和我不同价值观的妈妈，劝我把结婚戒指摘掉。</p><p><span class="bbu">This was like over a year into the divorce and let’s just say my then “wife” had done a lot of unethical things in the divorce to take advantage of me.</span>（this was like是什么句型，后面又为什么用祈使句）<br />离婚一年多了，我曾经的妻子做了很多关于离婚的不道德的事来利用我。</p><p>But: nevertheless I told my mom I was committed to wearing my wedding ring until the day the divorce was completed. <br />尽管如此，我告诉妈妈，我承诺会一直带这只戒指，直到整个离婚手续完成。（？什么婚离了一年，还准备再离一年？）</p><p>As I was saying that to her I was looking at and fumbling with the ring… and in that moment it literally broke off of my finger. Like the metal cracked!!<br />当我回答妈妈时，我一边看着戒指，仔细抚摸它…但是就在那一瞬间，它真的从我手指上折断了。就像金属断裂！</p><p>I took that as a sign that I should take it off and that my marriage was done, sadly. That was a couple years ago now. <span class="bbu">Definitely for the best.</span><br />我将这件事当做一个信号，这意味着我是时候去下它，并且在悲伤中结束我的婚姻了。那已经是两年前的事了。绝对是最好的。（最后一句是什么？）</p><p><strong>单词表：</strong><br />Christian n. 基督教徒 adj. 信基督教的; 基督教的; 基督教徒的<br />devastated vt. 毁坏；使荒芜<br />在感情上(精神上、财务上等)压垮<br />therapy n. 治疗，疗法<br />nevertheless adv. 仍然, 然而, 不过 conj. 尽管如此, 然而<br />fumble vt. 摸索；笨拙地做；[体育]漏接 vi. 摸索；笨拙地行动；漏球.n. 摸索；笨拙的处理；漏球<br />literally adv. 逐字地；照字面地 确实地，真正地</p>]]></content>
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